“I reserve the right to privacy. Being married does not mean that this person gets to live inside my head. I just feel very protective of my individuality and I get nervous when I feel like someone is parenting me and having secrets makes me feel independent. But anyway, this isn’t about me!
Sarah: [Laughs] Wow. Whatever works for you!”
This week over at The Secret Life of Marrieds we agree to disagree.
Kyla doesn’t get along with her husband’s family, so guess what? She just doesn’t talk to them. Problem solved! Read all about it in this week’s Secret Life of Marrieds over at Cosmo.
Are you married? Do you have kids? Do you have a post-marriage, post-kid related sex question you’d like Dan Savage and I to weigh in on for The Longest Shortest Time podcast? If so, please go here. It’s anonymous and the deadline is tomorrow!
Meet Jenny and Claire, the latest Secret Life of Marrieds couple.
I’m so excited to share that I’ve finally done something for the amazing website The Toast: this NSFW interview with my dear friend Diane Cook, former This American Lifer. She wrote a book of short stories. I compare her to George Saunders. GO BUY IT.
My husband Julian spoke to Hillary Frank about happiness and fatherhood and families and more on her podcast this week. It’s a delightful half hour. Check it out here!
One surprising thing I’m learning from writing The Secret Life of Marrieds column is that a lot of people marry the first person they date and it turns out great.
Talkin’ about beauty over at Rookie today!
The latest “Secret Life of Marrieds” is up on the newly redesigned Cosmo.com!
Stacie was a virgin when she met Chuck. Not any more! This was such a fun and surprising interview.